Throughout history, women have tried to comprehend the male species. Women love getting together to try to unravel the mixed signals men give us. As a result, a consensus has been reached: men do what they do because they are complicated human beings.
However, a recently published book, “He’s Just Not That Into You,” states the reasons why men are not really at all complicated.
The authors, Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo say that there are no hidden messages, but rather, men’s actions will truly show how they feel.
The book is very direct and to the point. The style is easily readable, and its content is written in a question-and-answer format. I found the bluntness of it to be extremely hilarious because women will try to justify the men they choose to love. We hope that the mixed messages men give us really mean “I’m in love with you and want to be with you.”
I agree with this last statement because I, too, have found myself trying to justify the man I’ve chosen to love, and it is absolutely true that I hoped this man would love me back. However, I can now clearly see that his actions say otherwise. He doesn’t truly care for me, and I deserve better. So, why should I have to put up with his nonsense? Well, not anymore. I have concluded that I will find someone better because there are better guys out there I can love and will love me in return.
So, if he’s not calling you, if he’s not asking you out, if he’s not having sex with you, if he doesn’t want to marry you, if he’s a selfish jerk, and lastly, if he’s married, “He’s just not that into you!”
Whatever your current relationship status may be, if it’s a bad one, the bottom line is “You deserve better!” Stop making excuses for that man who treats you like crap and get out of that relationship.