Here’s my gripe: Nowadays, young ladies in their early 20’s do not appreciate chivalry. That’s the bottom line.
Some might say that they want to get some flowers and have the door opened, but in reality that just makes you a sap in their eyes.
In the 2000s the “bad boy” is back in style, or if not him then “the guy that’s really for you.”
The girls usually stay in this mindset until they get into their later 20’s, and then they realize the boy they missed out on, and that most guys they dated were not the nicest of men.
I am young. I know what’s up. I understand the whole, ” I don’t make good decisions and I’ll probably regret it later” thing.
Some guys are still genuine and nice and they basically get screwed because of this.
I don’t know who to blame for this, the guys, or the young ladies, or media. I’m going to go ahead and blame them all.
First off, guys need to stop “hollerin.” Straight up, people like positive things told to them, but guys nowadays are just like, “I want you to let me get at it.”
How about this? We play a little hard to get and don’t try to pull a make-out session the first second we see a girl.
Maybe then all men wouldn’t get the reputation of being “Dog’s rep.”
Second, girls need to make that good decision and get with young men who respect them, support them, and who are into them for who they really and truly are and not just for their hot bodies.
Guys are pretty easy, and we need to bring back the gentlemen.
However, I think if girls started to date guys that have respect for them and who are the perfect match then maybe we would find ourselves in a little better place.
We need to stop the whorish ways and irresponsible dating.
How about getting to a good place in our life and then its time we pick a guy or gal who is just a super awesome match?
The third thing would be that media sets up the standards and people are dumb and live them out in real life and have to “holla” at “bitches” with our fake bling, (which I might add is completely disrespectful.)
First off, “bling” is a weak word. Second, where the hell is the respect anymore?
I know that hyphy-ass songs are the best things to crump to, but lets not ghost ride and demean women.
So, I am going to start a revolution; one man at a time. That one man being me.
I’m bringing back the respectable gentleman and I’m going to ride it out to the end. I might not get with any young ladies my age but maybe I can find a lady who respects herself for the reason I respect them.
We don’t have to give into all of the media and social hype of disrespecting ourselves and instead be with each other for the reasons people should be together.
We are one in the same. We just play off of each other, and we only bring better things to each other’s lives.
We’re not making out in public or getting down on the first date.
Stop the scandalous activity, and get with someone who loves and respects you.
Bring the gentleman back.